Divorce / Custody Blog*

What to Expect in a Colorado Divorce

August 6, 2018


Every person is unique and so are the factors that are significant to him/her if the need to dissolve marriage arises. Since dissolving one’s marriage affects almost every aspect of a person’s life, I find that as a divorce attorney I must pay careful attention to the areas of life that my clients value most. 


Nevertheless, there are some common threads that come up in almost every divorce, and these are the factors the law is most concerned with: the division of marital property (including real property, money in the bank, credit card and other debts, retirement account, personal property, and other assets), the payment of temporary or “permanent” spousal support, and if there are minor children involved, parenting time (the number of overnights with each parent), the designation of parental decision-making, and child support. 



Every case in Colorado begins with the filing of a petition for dissolution of marriage and some other paperwork, which must be personally served on the other spouse, unless the spouse signs a waiver.  The parties are placed under an automatic temporary injunction which prevents them from disturbing one the peace for one another, ceasing to pay insurance premiums, leaving the state with the children without the other parties’ permission (or a court order), and requires parties to maintain the financial status quo.  Then there is an initial status conference at which point rules of the case are explained and deadlines are assigned.  The parties must exchange financial documents. Temporary orders may be issued either by agreement or after a hearing in court.  The parties must then attempt to settle their case before proceeding to a final orders hearing.  And finally, after at least 90 days have passed, the court enters a final decree of dissolution of marriage. 


3 Lessons from a Divorce Attorney in Colorado Springs

June 18, 2018


In the past year and a half, I moved myself and my career as an attorney from Orlando, Florida to Colorado Springs, Colorado and began my practice taking on divorce, family, and immigration cases.  In that short time, I have learned a lot from my clients! 


First, divorce is the end of a marriage, but importantly it is also the beginning of a new chapter in a person’s life.  Money, housing, and routines are all tossed up into the air, leaving newly separated people to pick up the pieces and try to make sense of it all.  Amazingly, everyone gets through it.


Second, I’ve learned the importance of dreaming and planning.  When someone comes to me for a divorce, I encourage him or her to try to answer the question, “What do I want my life to look like in a couple of years? What is my ideal scenario?”  To the extent realistic, I help them answer the question, “How can I make it happen?”  Having a vision helps shape a person’s decisions so that they can begin their new chapter on the right foot. 


Lastly, I’ve learned the importance of community.  People undergoing divorce have often isolated themselves or been isolated from their loved ones during recent years.  Frequently, though, loved ones are still there, waiting to be asked for help.  As humans we love to be needed by one another, so call up old friends and family members!  Make new friends!  And there are also divorce-support groups out there for this very reason. 


I hope to help every person who steps into my Colorado Springs office looking for a divorce plan and formulate a better future, whether they hire me or not!


Can I collect alimony in Colorado?

May 2018


In Colorado, alimony is referred to as spousal maintenance and is common. Alimony can be temporary (during the course of the divorce proceedings) or ongoing (for a set number of months after the divorce). There are guidelines in Colorado Statutes as to what kinds how much, and for how long alimony should be awarded. Unlike child support, the courts may not necessarily adhere strictly to spousal maintenance guidelines. Temporary alimony can be awarded while a divorce is ongoing if one spouse has financial need and the other spouse has the ability to pay. Since Colorado is a no-fault state, awards of alimony are affected by financial factors; including need and ability to pay, relative incomes, relative expenses, and abilities to earn, but not affected by factors like infidelity or abuse.


How much alimony will I get? The amount of ongoing spousal maintenance under the guidelines is equal to 40% of the higher income party's monthly adjusted gross income less 50% of the lower income party's monthly adjusted gross income; except that, the person receiving alimony gets capped at 40% of the parties' combined monthly adjusted gross income. If your combined annual adjusted gross income is $240,000 or higher, the calculation is conducted a bit differently.


For ongoing spousal maintenance, the marriage must have lasted for three years or more and the courts normally use statutory guidelines to determine the amount. Marriages of twenty years or more can result in awards in terms of years or an indefinite amount of time.

Get to Know the Real Mary Daugherty

Divorce and immigration attorney speaks at Colorado Springs DemBiz Meeting

Attorney Mary Daugherty standing at podium and speaking to business people.

April 3, 2018


I had the pleasure of meeting with and speaking to local business owners at the DemBiz Networking meeting about the role immigrants and immigration laws play in our economy. The best part was meeting with other business owners in Colorado Springs to learn about their businesses and the ways their businesses improve our community.

Joining the #MeToo Movement and the Women's March on Denver

January 23, 2018


This weekend, I was proud to participate with more than 50,000 people marching for immigration, environmental, and women’s issues as part of the 2018 Women’s March on Denver. The mood was enthusiastic, hopeful, powerful, and patriotic. There were so many people there, and all bundled up, shouting and holding signs about their disdain for our selective immigration policies. There were also signs expressing women’s strength, even after sexual harassment and assault. It made me proud to know that I get to help women fight off their domestic violence abusers through TESSA, and men, women and children fight their way through immigration red tape as part of my own practice.

Attorney Mary Daugherty and protestors at Women's March Protest in Denver, CO holding signs that read "Stop the ICE Raids," "#NoBanNoWall." "DACA Now," "The Work Continues Stay Strong," and "Keep your Dirty Hands off of our Public Lands (and Waters)""

*No part of the information on this page is intended to constitute legal advice.